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Pink Punishment
Happy New Year dear readers! An amusing news article on Yahoo caught my eye this morning. Headlined "DMX Adopts Pink Prison Wardrobe" the writer reports that jailed rapper DMX is none too happy about having to wear Maricopa County Jail's standard inmate uniform - pink t-shirts, underwear and socks. Apparently the jail adopted the "pink policy" as a way of cutting down on clothing theft.
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Yup....done now. Was nice while it lasted. Just far too little going on for it to remain on my list of favorites.
Best wishes.
Posted by: js | May 9, 2009 2:23:06 PM
About time for an update. I've had this blog listed on my favorites for quite some time and there's been NO UPDATE in over two months. It was obviously once active enough to be listed on my favorites, but it's getting a bit dusty.
Posted by: js | Apr 24, 2009 1:33:42 PM
I am a switch, I like topping as well as being a bottom...The type of partner I go for is someone who is aroused by being a top or a bottom. Yes I have no problem wearing womens underware, while role playing, I find it somewhat lends a exitment to the spanking I am about to recieve. I am not into being a dom or a submissive, or using a spanking to correct a behavior. For me a good sound spanking, otk using the hand and other implements is a turn on to love making. whether my role is topping or being the bottom. So my lady partner has to be a switch like me and enjoy both roles. Depending on what we deside to role play determines which of us gets the spanking, but be assured the next time the spanker will be the spankee, and vica versa. For me and her playing this way has put a great dimention into our love life, As well as being true equal partners. Just a note to the guys out there...Panties will not hurt you, My girlfriend has at times worn mens briefs, socks, slacks,dress shirt and tie, when it been her turn to bottom.
John
Posted by: John | Apr 17, 2009 12:10:06 PM
Hello, you have a veri nice blog here. If you like we could exchange links betwen our blogs.
Let me know
Best regards
Posted by: Spanking OTK | Mar 23, 2009 7:53:49 AM
I spent last weekend wearing little sissy outfits and getting spanked severely with a paddle by my wife. We went away together to a cottage in the mountains for a romantic weekend. When we arrived, my wife began lecturing me about how disrespectful I had been to her and made me put on a little sissy maid dress to teach me some manners. It was an extremely short, black satin dress that I wore with a huge-fullness, stiff white organdy petticoat that made the skirt stick almost straight out and put the bottom of my panties on display. She made me wear a black satin bra underneath it, a black garter belt, black stockings with the seam up the back, black patent high heels, and shiny red satin panties. When I was done dressing, she started to tease me about how cute I looked, instructed me on how to courtsey, and told me that I was to speak only when spoken to and to address her as mistress. She made me turn around because she wanted to get a good look at me in my little outfit, and I could feel my face turn beet red when she made me bend over to show her my panties. She then led me into the bedroom and tied my wrists to the rail that ran around the top of the four-poster bed. She had me bend forward, and I could see in the mirror that my panties were showing and that I was in the perfect position for her to spank me. We brought several paddles with us, and she took out one that is an old wooden racquetball paddle with a leather-wrapped handle and holes drilled in it. She made me watch in the mirror as she proceeded to give me a long and very hard punishment spanking that had me crying out for mercy.
Later that day, I found myself in the same position, wearing just the bra, garter belt, stockings, and high heels, and this time a pair black satin panties that had elastic on the sides of the legs, front and back, along with little tiny bows. I was given another long hard paddling that left my poor swollen bottom bruised.
The next day, she had me get ready for school. I got dressed in a light blue, long-sleeved oxford dress shirt, a dark blue tie, a navy-colored button-down sweater, blue socks, and burgundy penny loafers. I had on a pair of pink satin panites, and then, topping my uniform off, I wore a pair of extremely short, snug-fitting, dark blue corduroy short pants. It really made a cute looking uniform, especially with those little short pants. My wife was, of course, the teacher, and it was the first day of class. She started the school day by explaining her discipline policy which, I'm sure you can imagine, included corporal punishment. She explained that misbehavior would result in a demerit, and if I received three demerits, I would have to stay after class for a spanking with my pants pulled down. Naturally, it didn't take me long to earn three demerits, and I soon found myself staying after class. She made me stand up and told me to pull my shorts down. I protested that part, because I didn't think a teacher should make a student pull their pants down, but she told me if I didn't she would call my mother and tell her I had misbehaved and that I was going to get spanked. She said she was sure if my mother found out I got spanked at school I would get another one when I got home, so I pulled my pants down and bent over her desk as she instructed. I then got a bare-bottomed paddling that brought tears to my eyes and had me rubbing my extremely sore little fanny when she was done.
Later that day, it was time for gym class, so I put on my gym uniform that included a dark blue tank top, sneakers, short little white socks, and a pair of adidas shorts. The shorts were the old style, satin, very short and snug fitting. They were dark blue, with the three adidas stripes on the side in light blue. I didn't wear any panties underneath, and I was so excited that my member was sticking out underneath my shorts. My wife had me bend over a chair, but instead of spanking my already flaming hot behind, she just gently stroked my bottom with her fingertips as I was bent over in front of her in my tight satin short shorts. We both found it very erotic.
She then led me to the living room, where she bent me over the side of the coffee table, tied my thighs to the legs, and handcuffed me with my hands behind my back. She put a pillow down on the table and had me rest my chest on it. She then paddled me with my little shorts on, giving each paddle we brought a turn. She had me crying out and begging for mercy, but to no avail, as I was given one of the most severe spankings of my life.
As the evening approached, she decided I should put my maids dress back on and serve her dinner. Instead of the stockings though, this time I wore little lace-trimmed white anklet socks, and pink satin panties. I served her dinner and sat with her as we ate, dressed up as her little sissy maid. I cleaned everything up while she relaxed, and then she told me that she was so proud of what a good little maid I had been, that she was going to invite her girl friends to a little party where I could serve them. I said surely she was not serious, at least about making me parade around in front of her girl friends in a short little sissy dress with my panties showing. She said oh yes, that is exactly what she had in mind, and that I had better be careful and not bend over too far when I'm serving them, or everyone would get to see my panties in full view. She said that if I didn't do a good job she was going to put me over her knee and spank me with her hairbrush on my little panties right in front of her friends. She said she might even let them each have a turn of their own!
Posted by: Ronnie R | Mar 14, 2009 1:23:14 AM
since the panties are pink,my guess is that they are made for a woman...unless your package is akin to a six year old's...I suspect that your front will be about as sore as your rear...
by the by,,love the nic...
Sassy Pants R.N.
Posted by: Sassypants | Mar 11, 2009 1:29:32 AM
Have come to your site alot to read and experience the thoughts of other spankos like me. This is a very nice site and it is appreciated. Like some of you, I am in Black Panties at all times. I was told recently to purchase a pink silk thong for days when my wife knew there would be multiple sessions. I have not experienced that yet the panties are in the mail. I am not looking forward to being told to put the pink panties on. I will know I am in for a long,sore rear,day. Best Wishes.
Dustymarbles.
Posted by: Dustymarbles | Mar 10, 2009 2:12:03 PM
Glad to hear from you and hope you enjoy this long running well thought of site. Look forward to hear more from you.
Rachel & aj Widget
Posted by: Rachel & aj | Mar 5, 2009 1:35:33 PM
Rachel and AJ, it's good to read your posts once again. The Rocky forum seems to have gone by the wayside with all those wonderful stories lost, but hopefully not forever.
I hope this post finds both of you healthy and happy.
SS
Posted by: Spanksalot | Mar 5, 2009 9:35:41 AM
Happy Valentines Day to all. After having been strongly suggested to remain on topic,I can only say that tomorrow I may not be wearing any pink as recently depicted and discusses..but my lederhosen will be folded neatly on the chair in the master bedroom.(as that has already been mentioned/winks).
Although too often my mind becomes opinionated,my fanny must pay the price. And as depicted in the image of the man dressed in feminine attire awaiting the paddle..I feel humbled by the idea that a dress-code compliments the rituals of preparing for a no-nonsense spanking.
That I personally will be reminded of that soon enough,I think its best that I remain quiet on that subject as well as what may follow a spanking afterwards.
Hopes go all-around for everyone to enjoy their Valentines Day and that its touched with significance. Also,respect and acknowledgment to the reasons supporting strict dress-codes.
Courteously, Robert
Posted by: robert | Feb 14, 2009 10:08:38 PM
My dear friend Suzanne loves me in frilly pink panties. I get such a thrill when I'm over her lap and she pulls them down in preparation to spanking my bottom to a shade that is nearly a match in color!
Posted by: Jackie | Feb 14, 2009 2:23:14 AM
Hello aj,
Thank you for the advice. I will ask CJ for your email. I am looking forward to learning more.
Wayne
Posted by: wayne | Feb 13, 2009 8:49:38 PM
pink lace boy short panties are now a part of my life. My lady
tossed all my underwear and replaced them with pin lace boy shorts.
Have managed to remove them at same time that I remove slacks when in the locker room of the gym.
Posted by: pete | Feb 13, 2009 3:47:35 AM
Hi Connie:
Please join us: robert is in dire need of your hand to keep him on the straight & narrow. His needs are for you to vary his spankings and methods of being your "boy". He is, like my boy aj (66 years old) in need of a firm hand applied to him as well as goals to meet for you. In order to get these results a good spanking and sometimes enema makes him want to strive for better results. This is appreciated and loved by the boys and you will find robert wants to be YOUR perfect little boy. Keep up the good work.
Rachel W.
Posted by: Rachel | Feb 13, 2009 3:23:44 AM
(Smiles)On tuesday I showed Connie this blog. (She's going to read this too)At first she felt,"Why are you telling everyone what we do,you're not supposed to do that.." But I explained that I was "sharing insightful elements of what this means to me" with others who share similar interests.
Anyway,I've been told not to spend too much time on the computer..even though its fun and relaxing to read and share.
The disciplinary spankings are very exhausting and energy depleting. My muscles feel the ache and my fanny is swollen and tender. But I am "happy inside and outside". And it makes me so much more an amorous puppy to her.
Posted by: robert | Feb 11, 2009 9:54:37 PM
Congratulations Robert:
Now you can enjoy both sides and learn to LOVE IT ALL. We enjoyed reading your reactions as we both enjoyed a similar experience from enjoying the spanking fun.
Rachel and aj
Posted by: Rachel & AJ | Feb 11, 2009 12:08:17 PM
I think the time allowed to "prepare" for this type of humiliating punishment offers a significant degree of deep self-awareness.
Also,the sensations are amplified.
I've been paddled in one of my girlfriends "nighties" (yes I prepared for it)and it added elements to the experience. So did the fact that she scolded me as she paddled me saying,"So you like seeing grown women get spanked do you? Well lets see how you like getting spanked dressed-up in a woman's night-gown.."
I was made to howl,kick,scream and plead. I was also "taken" afterwards. It was a wonderful and liberating experience.
Posted by: robert | Feb 9, 2009 10:39:29 PM
Hi Wayne:
Read your question. I have found 2 ways. One is that she has a forceful and pushy personality and is the take charge type. The second and more dificult is that she has tobe put in the position that she is in charge. If she is self relient and likes a challenge then you have the woman to go with. I reccomend that you will find this out in short order and then show her some sites on the internet starting with this one (there is another I showed Rachel) which brought results and start to work from there. Once that is established go from there because she will either be totally negative or moderately positive. If she is moderately positive you have the woman you want. (Ask CJ the moderator for my e-mail address and I will go into greater detail.) aj
Posted by: aj Widget | Feb 8, 2009 9:09:53 PM
Lol..my earlier comment wasn't deleted..I just had to learn how to click on "next"...I apologize!
Posted by: robert | Feb 8, 2009 2:00:13 PM
Hello aj Widget,
I only came across this site recently, but I am finding it very interesting.
A question for you is how to find a lady with interest in keeping a male in line? I can think of a number of instances where this would have helped my behavior.
Wayne
Posted by: wayne | Feb 8, 2009 1:28:39 AM
My Post was deleted!
Posted by: robert | Feb 7, 2009 1:07:22 PM
As a Switch,I can really appreciate this scenario. Why? Because we who are involved and practice consensual spanking in relationships are often "inspired by scenarios which allow us to epitomize" the various spanking-persona we exude as individuals. Many/most of us are not one-dimensional. For instance,dress-codes provide that element to liberate and embellish key targeted-areas of our spanking-psyche. This provides us with the opportunity/ability to embrace and experience those parts of us which usually remain hidden except from our significant spanking partners. The above image portrays a male being sissified and prepared for a bare-bottom paddling. Note how his fanny is clean-shaven and he has been/is..properly prepared for his punishment. This in reality as we know it takes preparation. That preparation is worth so much in the ways of benefits we receive from being placed in that "awakening and provative" disposition. Would this scenario be remembered for a long time? Yes it certainly would. Would this scenario and experience be one that would shape an individuals spanking-psyche? Yes certainly. My point is this..to take these steps is well-worth it because the after-affects and long-lasting elements add a powerful and definitive influence as to how we can express and liberate those areas of our spanking-related persona.
Posted by: robert | Feb 6, 2009 10:17:15 PM
Hi everyone;
Lovely artwork in here, and thanks for sharing it. I wish I knew where to find more of this. I think this work of art shows a wife who has clearly put her husband back into diapers and plastic pants, explaining to his babysitter for the evening, that she should use this paddle to keep him in his place. Take care everyone.
Jeff.
Posted by: Jeff. | Jan 31, 2009 12:20:45 AM
Jacob; i agree with you 100%. Most girls are taught to be meek when really they want to be equals, they believe they will be thought of as a bitch. Once they are empowered they will take control. i had to break the shell to get Rachel to become HOH.
Now she is in charge and i love it.
ajWidget
Posted by: aj Widget | Jan 29, 2009 10:09:29 PM
andy4, I wouldn't count out women your age, if you give them the right reason there are many who will tan your behind, or you may even to one of the most humbling thing you have ever done, ask a lady your age to put you in panties and spank you when ever she feels you need it.
The first time I was put in panties and spanked, I felt very embarrassed and humiliated I was also scared knowing I was going to be spanked. Yes I cried at that first spanking, and most since then, I don't think it is possible for a bad boy to not cry when he has his panties pulled down and his bottom spanked. It is still as embarrassing today to have to wear panties for my spanking.
Good luck in finding that special lady.
Posted by: Jacob | Jan 29, 2009 10:27:30 AM
It looks like his SO has gotten a baby sitter for Her bad girl and is giving a demonstration on to deal with her while She's out!
Posted by: harry | Jan 29, 2009 6:55:10 AM
"I wish girls my age would be willing to take a young man like me in hand, but i guess i'll have to wait until an older woman comes along and takes me in hand."
Why wait? Take one of those young lasses and train her up in the ways you want to be loved. A good start is finding out how she wants to be loved and devoting yourself to it.
Posted by: Matt | Jan 27, 2009 6:07:12 AM
Hi aj Widget,
For me, it was the same as for you. It started out with spanking and then later, panties were added. But unlike you, I am not constantly in panties, only when ordered.
As far as commiserate with...I am keeping a blog of my experiences. It's linked to here as Mark's Training Blog (see, CJ's Blogging Links).
You can find it here: http://boy2spank.blogspot.com
Drop by if you like and tell me what you think.
Posted by: Mark | Jan 26, 2009 5:27:06 PM
Hi Andy4:
Enjoying your conversation immensely. I found that when you find a woman whose company you enjoy after a while you can openly talk and if she is a "good sport" and cares about you she will look up spanking on the net and give it a try. At first it won't feel great but with time and practice you will receive what you desire and she will love the results. This is personal experience. Once she gets the hang of it you will get teary and then cry. Soon after you will bawl and do a dance from it.
Hi Jacob and Mark:
Rachel started by spanking me and later stated that she heard all boys always want to get into a girl's pants so she obliged and removed all my underpants and replaced them one night with all kinds of panties leaving me a note that as newly appointed queen of the house i am to wear what is in the drawer or else. From then on it is panties everyday. Sometimes its just an apron and panties when i clean the house. She is the BOSS LADY and i love every minute of it as house hubby.
Write soon and let me know your experiences and thoughts as i would like to have someone to commiserate with.
aj Widget
Posted by: aj Widget | Jan 25, 2009 9:39:22 PM
Hi guys, thanks for posting your reactions. I think i would be similiarly embarrassed, however i would probably end up crying my eyes out, as once she had gotten past my male macho exterior, the bad boy side would be exposed and it would only be a matter of time before i was bawling and crying.
Posted by: Andy4 | Jan 24, 2009 11:43:15 PM
Hi Andy4,
My reaction? Well, I guess if I say that my face was nearly as red as my bottom, that says enough. It's hard to describe what being put in panties does to me, but one thing is for sure: it deflates your male ego like a popped balloon!
I'd gladly take a more severe spanking instead, but of course it's not my choice.
Posted by: Mark | Jan 24, 2009 11:17:45 PM
Hello Andy4:
When Rachel spanked me by hand no, but when she went to the paddle, hairbrush, and twase Yes!! Then when she decided my driving skills needed correction at the side of the road it hurt. After that she decided that I should be in panties 100% of the time. Join the rest of us enjoy the status.
aj Widget
Posted by: aj Widget | Jan 24, 2009 9:26:54 PM
Hi Jacob and Mark, yes i imagine it is very humbling, being constantly reminded that you are a naughty boy being punished in panties. I wish girls my age would be willing to take a young man like me in hand, but i guess i'll have to wait until an older woman comes along and takes me in hand. My attitude is in need of a sound adjustment, and i think im far too arrogant. What was your reaction when you were first put into panties, pulled over a feminine knee and spanked? Did you cry?
Posted by: Andy4 | Jan 24, 2009 8:57:27 PM
Yep, Andy4,
I am also not a stranger to panty-discipline...
Not pink panties, mind you, but I do have some very feminine, lacy ones. Thongs too. And it's probably going to get worse.
Believe me, there's no way you can be cocky when wearing panties! This evening, I had to clean the house, wearing nothing but a pair of black, lacy panties. That's a very humbling experience, even without being spanked.
Posted by: Mark | Jan 24, 2009 9:21:52 AM
Hi Andy4:
Jacob is not the only one. Rachel has me in panties all of the time,
usually pink. She took away my boxers and bvd's one day and all i have is panties: rumba, lace, satin, thongs, etc by Partners, Vanity Fair, Lilly, etc. Managing a company while wearing panties humbles you when you work with other ladies and know your better half can show up and you may be displayed otk. She has done this while traveling also. She is HOH so join us and ENJOY your status.
Posted by: aj Widget | Jan 23, 2009 9:24:51 PM
Jacob, wow youve really been put into pink panties and spanked? What was your reaction?
Posted by: Andy4 | Jan 23, 2009 12:04:19 PM
Andy4, trust me, this kind of punishment would adjust your attitude. I know from personal experience.
Posted by: Jacob | Jan 23, 2009 11:04:27 AM
I wonder if this kind of punishment would really adjust my attitude, from cocky young man to sorry tearful and contrite Little Man?
Posted by: Andy4 | Jan 23, 2009 8:17:23 AM
OK - I think the air has been cleared now so let's just leave it here and move on. Have some more good stuff lined up for posting the coming days. CJ.
Posted by: CJ | Jan 22, 2009 10:40:43 AM
To Clarify: we read and post together so that neither offends the other and what we say is fair. Yes Rachel is 4'10+" tall and AJ is
5'8" tall, and Rachel is now becomming mobile without the wheel chair to a great extent through therapy and practice but does use a support instrument. These things we do not care who knows nor the fact AJ has had 2 bouts with cancer.
What offended us greatly was making fun of one of the other readers of this blog who complained about being embarassed if he had to wear feminine attire or colors. In our travels we know of a number of men who do and have seen pictures of them as well as AJ. These men wanted a Female Led Marrige and most have hinted at enjoying this as part of accepting this. Many are successful in their careers.
Many guys as adolescents always wanted to "feel her up" or if they could "get into her panties." Well now their mocho days are over and they are married and it seems the roles are reversed: instead of them feeling her up, she IS feeling them up across her knee. So they know that She (I) is in charge they are in panties so they are reminded 24/7 whom is in charge and cares for them. RHIP (responsibility has its privileges) if she takes care of the house and the mundane bill paying or decisions then it is clear who wears the panties (boys). The photos and illustrations of this site are beautiful because they are so real and in many cases we can relate to them as life and past wishes.
We enjoy hearing from others in this same status. We also know of the "Macho Men" who never realize the love and beauty of sharing companionship and relations. We share in everything we do although AJ always puts ME first. (This was composed and written together).
Rachel & AJ
Posted by: Rachel & AJ | Jan 22, 2009 6:32:59 AM
Well,to clarify my thoughts on the Family Widget...I said that their postings were creative...i.e. they are funny,over the top and sometimes even Erotic...all in my opinion,good things...
The Widgets seem to go back to the beginning of the blog...their support of OVER HER KNEE is commendable...
The crux of my post is that I don't know if there are 1 or 2 people behind the Widget name...I mentioned that 'it matters not" because the material stands on its own...it's entertaining....as for being "nasty"...I mentioned Rachel's height...4'10' and the fact that she's in a wheel chair...both those items were culled from two separate posts that I had read...now as for aj. being "hapless"...you the reader can draw your own judgments...
Sassy...
Posted by: Sassypants | Jan 22, 2009 12:14:23 AM
As Blog owner, I just wanted to pop in here and remind people of two brief points. Firstly we don't need to question people's identities or make other disparaging remarks. The friendly spirit of the Blog is important. Secondly it is not really designed as a contact forum - there are other good sites intended for such purposes. The posting of telephone numbers or other personal information (other than an e-mail address) is discouraged. Likewise repeated identical postings under different topics. Let's try to keep things on topic where possible! Cheers! CJ.
Posted by: CJ | Jan 21, 2009 5:11:11 PM
Hi ANDY4,
Trust me, there's no way you're going to be stoic about being put in panties. I know, because I am put into them regularly and my face still blushes at the mere thought of it!
Posted by: Mark | Jan 21, 2009 3:07:38 PM
Andy4 and Slave Danielle:
We think that it is nice to know your feelings and enjoy your view points. It is nice to know of others and their feelings and love your comments.
Sassy Pants: It is nastyness and wise guy comments that are going to ruin this wonderful site for the rest of us. We are quite offended by you as everybody who enjoys this board has a right to their comments.
Rachel & AJ Widget
Posted by: Rachel & AJ Widget | Jan 20, 2009 9:30:04 PM
Yes jacob i know, I only wish i could be a bit more stoic about it. However I know would end up bawling my eyes out and promising to be good. It fascinates me how a woman with only the help of a hairbrush or even without, can turn a cocky, arrogant man, into a crying, tearful, snotty nosed kicking and screaming mess.
Posted by: Andy4 | Jan 20, 2009 8:49:14 AM
Yes i know Jacob, i just wish i could be a bit more stoic about it, i feel i would end up bawling my little heart out and kicking my legs. Women seem to have the power to turn a macho male into a thouroughly sorry, crying and humiliated young man with simply the help of a hairbrush or even without.
Posted by: ANDY4 | Jan 20, 2009 8:42:57 AM
Andy4, the whole point of "being pantied and then spanked to a blubbering mess with panties at my ankles" is so that you won't be able to keep up a macho front. I hope you do find a woman who will keep you in your place and give you plenty of spankings with your panties around you ankles.
If you want a real humiliating experience wait until your panties are pulled down around your ankles and you are spanked to a blubbering mess in front of one of her friends, like this guy is about to be. I do warn you, she may invite her friend to spank you.
Posted by: Jacob | Jan 20, 2009 7:44:15 AM
I am new to this blog as a poster but I have lurked off and on for a while...I've always enjoyed the riffs by the Family Widget...Rachel and her hapless hubby,aj...
I started reading the archives and well in the early Widget stuff...aj was doing most of the posting,evening signing off in caps...it got me to thinking...is Ole Sassy being taken for a spin??? I understand the lady Widget to be 4'10"
and spends some time in a wheel chair...
hey,why not...but,could it be that Rachel and aj are really Rachel/AJ???
In the end,it matters not and either way...the family Widget is very errr creative...
Sassy
Posted by: Sassypants | Jan 20, 2009 7:04:10 AM
Lol at sassypinkpanties. Slavedanielle said he doesent look at anyone, not that they dont look at him. So fail on your attempt to be clever an sassy.
Posted by: Avi | Jan 20, 2009 6:56:28 AM
I'm 22 year old man, and i can't bear to think of the utter shame of being pantied and then spanked to a blubering mess with panties at my ankles. Humiliating. I dont think i could keep a macho front up, as i was told i am going to be put in pink frilly panties and then be spanked until i cried.
Posted by: Andy4 | Jan 20, 2009 12:20:47 AM
