I was delighted to learn that Lady Governa is an enthusiastic reader of this Blog. She is a wonderfully creative person with the style of a stern, vintage governess. She is also a true expert in the kind of traditional, old-fashioned disciplinary methods about which all of us love to read. I reproduce here a brief paragraph from her fascinating website.
The Lady Governa Ethos
"The man is belittled & kept in his place for his own good & her own pleasure...
He is a ward, a pupil, an infant, a sissy, a doll, a pet, a toy, a plaything ... for a moment or a lifetime, as she so wishes. He is a vulnerable yet potent creation of the woman who controls and nurtures him, as is her prerogative. The adult male is enticed and regressed by the adult female and forced into a helpless and vulnerable state in her delicate hands. The man is physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually dominated and manipulated by the woman. He is immobilised and incapacitated, disciplined and humiliated by her. He is made to submit to her will, her whim and her desire. The man is stripped of his adult male status and he is laid bare by her natural seductive power and control.
The woman utilises her womanly wiles and charms to emasculate and disempower the man. His freedom of choice and movement is taken from him and he must do as the woman demands for her pleasure or suffer her displeasure. He is kept as a plaything in restraint and containment by his female owner. He loses control of the most basic of functions of movement, feeding, toileting and sex. He is disciplined and punished, mocked and chastised, teased and cooed over, dressed in frills and fancies, displayed as a novelty, treated as a human toy for her entertainment. He is ashamed yet aroused at this humiliation and cruelty that he cannot stop. His inherent weakness is his sexual desire for seduction by the female and this is used against him by the provocative and powerful woman. His erect cock is the explicit manifestation of the desire that he cannot hide and she controls its pleasure and pain, release and restraint, as she sees fit. He is a dependant for his physical and sexual release and he must beg for her attention and her mercy. The man is belittled in this most fundamental form of male submission and female domination. Her feminine beauty is the natural weapon of the woman and her high heels, black stockings, red lips & red nails adorn this.
He loves and hates it. He craves and fights it."I have placed a link on the left to Lady Governa's website ladygoverna.com.